You pay attention to everything around you.
This is your chance to pay attention to yourself.
A free 10-minute guided practice to help you stay with yourself when difficult emotions arise.
Are you ready to offer yourself choice in moments that have historically taken you over?
There's a particular version of being fine.
You're not the person you used to be in hard moments.
You don't lash out the way you did.
You don't bail, or at least not the way you used to.
You've acquired real awareness earned through diligence, observation, and a desire to be better.
The tools and systems you’ve acquired and built, to better manage your responses to uncomfortable experiences, seem to be working.
Then why do the patterns keep happening? Why is there still distance between you and everything that matters to you, everything you want?
You are not actively sabotaging relationships with friends, family or partners. You are good at listening, offering support when people ask for it.
And everything is fine.
You’re good at paying attention.
Just not to yourself.
A 10-minute audio for the distance you can’t quite close.
Send me the audioThere’s a particular version of being fine.
You’ve done real work — the uncomfortable kind. You’re not the person you used to be in a hard moment. You don’t lash out the way you did. You don’t bail, or at least not the way you used to. You’ve built something. Real capacity, honestly earned.
And something is still here.
Not the blow-ups. Not the days of silence. Something quieter. A distance you can’t quite close. Connections that feel like flukes — moments you make but can’t figure out how to get back to. You’re good at being present for other people. Good at listening, holding, offering. You go to things once and don’t go back. Tuesday nights are fine.
Fine.
I keep noticing this with the men I work with. They arrive having already solved the first problem. And they’re still somehow … in it.
A 10-minute guided practice.
It doesn’t promise anything. It doesn’t try to move you faster than you’re ready to move.
What it does: it takes you back to a moment of strong emotion — rejection, frustration, that cornered feeling — and asks you to breathe through it without moving away from it. Without explaining it. Without finding the solution.
Just staying with it. Noticing what it does.
You are so good at paying attention to everything and everyone around you.
Are you ready to pay attention to yourself?
What you might notice.
You won’t come out of this fixed. That’s not what ten minutes does.
- The urge to move away from the feeling has a shape. A timing.You’ll start to recognize it before it runs.
- The thing underneath the distance is sometimes smaller than you thought.Once you stop outrunning it.
- There’s a fraction of a second before you close off.That’s the gap. That’s where everything actually happens.
The longer arc is building enough capacity that staying becomes something your body knows how to do — not a rule you’re trying to follow.
But it starts here. Ten minutes. One uncomfortable feeling. Staying.
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One email. The audio in your inbox. I’ll leave you alone after that.
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My name is Caitlin. I’m a somatic coach.
I work with men who’ve done enough work to hold themselves together in the hard moments — and are still quietly alone inside it. The work is body-based: breathwork, movement, slowly getting reacquainted with the parts of you that learned to stay closed and haven’t gotten the update that it’s okay to open.
At the pace of your nervous system.
This audio is one piece of how I work. The longer arc is 1:1 and group containers — moving from knowing your patterns to being able to trust yourself inside them.